From learned helplessness to hope

From learned helplessness to hope
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Outside the home, schools are the primary vehicles for educating, socializing, and providing services to young people in our country.

Smoking school children at their very tender age, taking dopants such as whitner used for erasing on paper writing, consuming - alcohol, chemical sprits, cough syrabs and smoking, pre marriage pergnancy at school level, abortion, immature sex, lesbian, gay, homosexual partners and transgender.......all kinds of unwelcomed changes are taking place in our society specially in schools. Schools are paving a new way for this kind of activities because of getting immense opportunities from various cultural backgrounds.

Students of this kind may face bullying, exclusion, and discrimination in school, putting them at physical and psychological risk and limiting their education. This is true. At the same time we cannot support their practices  and protect them from risks. In order to save them, can we support their habits inculcated. Never possible.

These are challanges for parents and simple issues to a school where the girl is admitted for getting good Education. Of course not admitted for giving birth to a baby. 

Children learn most of the things from their home environment and surroundings. They learn from shameless romantic parents doing their foul play in their children's presence. The idiot father or mother or the entire family consume liquor in their children's presence. 

Children see their parents half naked or fully naked or watching mood inducive movies or songs....

Whereas in School,  a child could found No such marks of distractions except little affairs towards opposite genders but it will never end with abortion or pregnancy....Even children do not have such a brave operations towards sex. They may have an instict of infactuation. Thats quite natural. But when you see its root cause, you will find them under force by some seniors of the family or neighbor or immediate well wishers. Remember: Tormentors are not a stranger. 

Therefore, Parents keep your romantic moods away from children. Dont sleep with children once they have grown to discriminate. Keep away all types of well wishers, your friends or your known elders away from your family picture.

Teach your children, physical changes are natural. And physical needs are not wants now. Receive them when are coming from school. Address their needs. Care them. Teach them mensuration is a natural process and dont treat your girl as a lady and your boys as a man. 

Dont consume alcohol and other dopants in front of them. Avoid attending night parties with your children.

Your child is born, it does not mean that you gave birth to a child. Rather your child give birth to a new mother and father.

AZEEZ

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